Did you ever think or philosphy why our life is synchronized around the people we meet and our family?
Well I have a true understanding of the whys.  Before we are born, and I am speaking about our true home,   we pick the setting of our life.  This includes the good, the bad, and the ugly.  Our guides go over our choices and if they decide our final  destinies are too hard to handle, they will dismiss the choice and recommend another outcome.  I am sure many of you are saying, okay, then why do people commit suicide.  Suicide is like a broken contract or pact and when this is occurs, we must come back and repeat our life all over again with all the same situations.  This time to get over the hump.

When we come down to earth, we have a proverbel script under our arm that we act out.
Does that mean we can deviat away from the road we chose.  Yes, we can, but again if this is where we are to be, no matter how hard we try to walk upon a new road, we will at one time be forced, and sometimes violently, back to the yellow brick road.
Some of us are fortunate and strong enough to make the best of a bad situation, but then again, this is the characteristic we chose for us.

The best advice I can give is make every minute count.  Life at the moment is what counts; not an hour from now, or yesterday.  The past does not exist, we are to bring it into the future to learn.  The future is what we make of it and appling our lessons.  The now is the time that we must focus on.
Don't get down on yourself if life is not as grand as you would like.  Embrace what you have and enjoy.
Peace and quiet are my two favorite words.  I do not have a grand house, car, furniture nor do I get to go on vacations, but I realize I am happy and no money in the world can keep happiness in our life.
Next time when our life goes topsy turvey and at our door there is a black shadow, don't blame God for  tragedies in life.  We ultimately are the keepers of our castle.

Enjoy life to the fullest.  Our obligations come first, then the next step is play, play, play.  Blow bubbles and watch your troubles blow away just even for the moment.